Other Pro’s and Con’s With all that being said, here are a list of other pro’s and con’s. Granted, all women are flakey to some degree (it’s core part of being female), but the flaky factor drops significantly when a women gets over age 30 and again when she gets over age 35.
VYW are a lot of fun, but god damn, the constant flaking, forgetting, rescheduling, emergencies and cancelling gets extremely irritating, particularly when you’re a busy guy juggling work, family, multiple women, Mission, etc. Easy Compliance – Younger women win here, big time.
There are great things about dating younger women, and very bad things.
There are great things about dating older women, and very bad things. First, as always, we need to get our definitions straight. Longtime readers know that in general, I separate the “older” vs. As I’ve discussed many times here, when a woman crosses over age 33 (if not sooner), her ASD spikes into the stratosphere and her entire attitude about dating, men, and sex changes forever.
The problem is the words I personally don’t like waiting more than two or three dates with zero sex, since I don’t see the point, and there are too many pretty women in the world who are perfectly happy having sex on date two.Many women in their 30’s have had much of that “light” burned out of them by stressful kids, numerous failed relationships, financial pressures, and all kinds of other baggage. Hit up You Tube, watch a few interviews of her when she was 19, then watch a few of her today.The first woman will be bubbly, enthusiastic and excited.A third category, Very Young Women or VYW are women under the age of 23.For purposes of this article, when I say “younger,” I’m talking about women age 18-32, and when I say “older,” I’m talking about women 33 , unless otherwise stated. In both cases, these women are unusual exceptions to the rule. I am not interested in discussing the unusual exceptions to the rule (other than acknowledging that they do indeed exist) and I will ignore any comments complaining that I’m generalizing (because I am) and that there are rare, unusual exceptions out there (duh, I know). Everything I say is within the context of the fast sex dating model I practice and teach, which is represented here (click to zoom): In this model, there are three separate phases: the pickup phase (getting a woman to agree to meet with you one-on-one), the dating phase (getting to sex as fast as possible, ideally on the second date/meet within 3-4 hours of total face time), and the relationship management phase (ongoing sex via a casual or serious relationship, either of which are nonmonogamous).