Note: The Bible does talk about guarding your heart.So while it is not wise to share the parts of your heart with your girlfriend early on, as the dating relationship gets more and more serious, you should continue to share more and more of your heart.The true root of this question is value: "Am I valuable enough to him to catch his attention? " Also, I understand that this need of your girlfriend can be confusing for guys, because if purity is a struggle for you, then you are trying to not focus so much on your physical attraction to your girlfriend.However, there are lots of ways to express your attraction and communicate value to your girlfriend that are wholesome and appropriate.While it’s always the thought that counts, you always hope that they love your present.It can be difficult to think of something that they will want, but don’t already have.She needs to know that you have "eyes only for her." She does not want to have to worry about if you are still communicating with old flames. Your girlfriend deserves more than a loose commitment.She needs you to either be with her or not be with her.
She needs to know she is beautiful and has worth for herself because the Bible says so.You are not doing anyone any favors if you try to be partially committed to her while keeping other options open.She should not feel like she has to work to gain your commitment.I hope you are encouraged that you do not need to spend more money on her, and you don't even need to become a better person necessarily.She just wants you, the real you — the you that is at the core of your heart.